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How to Create a Plan and Kick Butt

Are your ready to lose weight, reduce debt, begin your journey of self discovery, grow your business or grow your blog?  If so, I am super excited to tell you about a free workbook and email course that you can do to finally:

  • create your plan
  • take back control
  • live the life you deserve

How to Create a plan and kick butt


I wrote this free email course, workbook and guide because I wanted to teach you how to create a plan so you can finally kick butt and achieve what it is that you want to achieve. Whether it be losing weight, reducing your debt, begin your journey of self discovery, growing your business or growing your blog.  I want you to accomplish whatever it is that you have set your mind to do.

By downloading the workbook and joining the course you can learn how to create a plan that can help you to:

  • reduce your debt and finally have savings.
  • be organised so you can actually get things done.
  • finally lose the weight you said you were going to lose and have that confidence that you have always dreamed of.
  • be strong, fit and healthy.
  • get out of that dead-end job and being working in a career that is fulfilling.
  • get balance back into your life so you can spend quality time with the people you care about.
  • launch and grow your business.
  • launch and grow your blog.
  • accept your self and who you are and grow through personal development.
  • finally reduce those feelings of anxiety and stress and live your life the way you want to.
  • declutter your home and create a home life that you have always wanted.


Are you ready to create that plan?  Download your free workbook and join the course now.

By the end of the five day course you will come away with an action plan that will make you feel motivated and empowered to achieve your goal and achieve the success that you have always wanted.

So, are you ready to:

  • stop feeling stuck?
  • stop feeling like you want more and actually have more?
  • stop feeling like something is missing and actually work it out and get it?
  • start living a lifestyle that’s positive, rewarding and fulfilling?
  • stop feeling overwhelmed and actually make a start?
  • stop repeating the same goal year and year and actually do something about it?
  • take back control?

How bad do you want it?  Get it for free.


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What to Expect

Right from the start I’m going to speak to you like you’ve already achieved your goal and the success that you have always dreamed of.

You can reuse your workbook at anytime or whenever you have a goal that you want to achieve.  Each day for the next five days I will walk you through each step of the planning process.  I will be with you every step of the way.

You will learn how to develop an achievable goal using the SMARTER method and break down your goal in easy, actionable and achievable steps.


Are you ready?  Get started now.

As you work through your free workbook or as we work together through each step in the planning process you will move away from having an idea and actually making it into an achievable plan.  We’re going to work together to create an action plan that is realistic and achievable.  Stop wasting your time floundering around, falling off the bandwagon.

Are you ready to find your best you?  Download now.

Ashleigh x

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Where to Start when there is a Shitload of Things to Do

In this blog post I share with you a goal setting strategy that you can use to help you determine and prioritise what the most important thing is to work on when it feels like you want to achieve so much all at once and that you feel like everything is equally important. If you like you can join my free email course where I can help and support you every step of the way.

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It can be really tough when it there is so much that you want to do and it feels like there is so much going on inside your head. If you’re anything like me, once I start to focus on one thing another half a dozen other things come up that I also want to do and I become easily distracted. When this happens things can quickly become confusing, overwhelming and stressful and that is when you can run the risk of losing complete focus and can become stuck.

I’m here to share with you a technique that you can use to avoid becoming confused, overwhelmed and stressed when you have many ideas inside your head or when there is many things that you want to achieve. You can join my free email course where I can help and support you every step of the way.

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The Benefits of Prioritising

Prioritising tasks and goals is important, especially when at face value, everything seems to be equally important and there are competing demands. Knowing what to work on first can affect your success in achieving the task at hand and achieving your overall outcome.

Not every task or goal is equally important.

Learning and knowing how to prioritise tasks and goals can help to teach you that not everything is as equally important as what they first appear to be. There are things that are super important that need to be done TODAY, and there are other things that, although they are still important, they can be put off for another day. I’ll teach you how to do this further down.

Avoid wasting time and achieve more.

Knowing what to work on first can help you to avoid wasting precious time and increase your ability to achieve more. There is nothing worse than knowing that you have a deadline, but realising that you have been wasting time doing meaningless things such as scrolling on Facebook (I’m guilty!) or watching the latest episode of that must see television show (also guilty!). This is called procrastination and can lead to that last minute panic and can cause unnecessary stress. I’ll teach you how to beat procrastination another time.


Conserves your energy and attention.

As I mentioned in the point above, knowing what to work on first can help you to conserve your energy and maintain your focus and attention on things that really need your focus and attention.

Ensures that deadlines are met.

Learning the skill of determining whether things are as important as what they need to be and prioritising helps you in the planning process and ensures that those important deadlines are met and that you don’t have some serious explaining to do.

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Learning How to Prioritise in 7 Easy Steps

Below are the seven steps that you can take to prioritise and decide what you need to work on next. Join my free email course where I can help and support you every step of the way.

1. The Brainstorm

I call this process an ‘action log’, which is basically a brainstorm or a brain dump of all the things that you want to do, all of the ideas in your head and all of the goals that you want to achieve. This is one of my favourite steps to do in the planning process and you can read more about the specific steps here. You’ll find writing everything down helpful as all of those fluffy ideas will become more concrete.

I strongly encourage you to set a time frame for your action log. For example, is this action log a brainstorm of all the things you want to do in the next month, the next 12 months or the next five or ten years. This will help you to put your action log into perspective.

2. Short Term and Long Term

From this list of ideas have a look at what you want to achieve in the short term and what you want to achieve in the long term. It may seem like you need to do everything RIGHT NOW, but honestly, some things need to wait and they can wait.

3. What is important

Take a look at what you want to do in the short term. There might be one thing listed here or there may be several. If there is one thing listed you may like to start this process again and use this same process to break that task, idea or goal down into small, manageable steps. If there is more than one thing listed, you need to determine what is the most important. You can do this by using a high, medium and low importance colour coding or numbering system. By doing this you will begin to have a clearer picture about what needs to be done immediately and what things can be done at another time.

4. What needs doing RIGHT NOW

From here you need to determine what you need to do RIGHT NOW, based on what you considered to be of high importance. When you’re determining what you need to do immediately also consider:

  • how long it is going to take to achieve it
  • any upcoming deadlines
  • and the difficulty.

Often the things that are the most difficult or the hardest to accomplish are the things that we should be doing first.

What do you need to do right now?

5. Write that list in order

By now you should have a list full of scribbles, colour codes and numbers. Its time to take that list and put it in order from what you’ve discovered to be most important that needs to be done urgently to what you discovered to be least important.

Include this list on your vision board, up on your wall or in your bullet journal so it is always visible. You can read more about putting together your own vision board here. Having a constant visual reminder will keep you motivated and will prompt you to actually get things done.


6. Is there anything that anyone else can do?

Often we want to be miracle workers or super women and do everything ourselves, but realistically, having this mindset can reduce your success, cause unnecessary stress or make things take a lot longer than what they need to be. It’s okay to ask for help. It’s okay to pull your resources together and use them to get the job done. Pulling your resources together and asking for help will free up your time to do the things that you want to do and will help you to get to your outcome quicker.

7. One thing at a time

Its time to start working and crossing things off that list. It can be tempting to do bits and pieces of each goal or task, but I would encourage you to spend your time, energy, focus and attention working on one thing at a time. When you begin to cross things off your list you’re going to feel refreshed and motivated. Imagine how empowered you’re going to feel when you realise that you’re one step closer to achieving your dream.

How do you work out what is the most important thing to work on first? Comment below.

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Here’s to finding your best you.

Ashleigh x

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How to Create a Vision Board that Will Lead You to Success

I have been doing a lot of visualisation about my business, Finding Your Best You, lately.  It has been incredibly powerful and motivating.  From visualising the services that I would like to offer to women who feel like they’re struggling and the natural techniques that I will like to teach women to gain power over their mental health, to visualising how I would like my business to run, day to day and why I even want to open up my own online private practice in first place.  So much has been going through my head that I decided to try and keep track of it in some form of logical sense in a way of a vision board.

In this blog post, I share the strategy I used in creating my own vision board for my business, Finding Your Best You.  Use this strategy to create your own vision board if you have a goal that you’d like to work towards, whether that might be learning natural ways of managing your anxiety or a goal of recovering from your mental illness.

How to Create a Vision Board that will Lead to Success

So, what is a vision board anyway?

A vision board is a visual tool made from an arrangement of images, quotes and other visual ideas that represents your goal, what your life is going to be like once you get there and how it’s going to make you feel.  Having these things as a visual reminder is frickin’ powerful stuff.

The purpose of a vision board is that it is used as a contact visual reminder of your goal in order to keep you motivated.  I have my vision board up on my wall above my desk.  Sometimes its easy for me to lose sight on where I’m going or I become confused and overwhelmed.  Having my vision board right in front of me is incredibly useful when I feel uncertain, have any doubt that what I’m doing isn’t going to be useful, when I get frustrated and when I begin to feel fearful and my anxiety kicks in, telling me that my whole business is a total waste of time.

A vision board is a collection of images, quotes, words and numbers that are arranged on a poster, a board or a page in your journal.  I chose to create a massive poster for my vision board for the purpose of having it ‘smack-bang’ in front of me.


How I Finally put my Vision Board Together


STEP 1:  My Goal

The first step in creating my vision board was to actually work out what it is that I wanted to achieve.  I had to think of my goal and by doing this I was giving it energy.  For a long time now, I’ve wanted to leave my 9-5pm job working with children in foster care and go out into the world on my own.  I am passionate about giving women the space and skills that they need to be mentally healthy and to be their best self, so Finding Your Best You was born.


STEP 2:  Answering the Important Questions

Unpacking my goal of opening up my own online private practice and exploring why its something I am remotely interested in required me having a willingness to open up and honestly answer some pretty tough questions.  It required me to be ‘selfish’ and think about ‘what’s in it for me’?  I needed to think about what it is that I want to get out of it – a dream home that I could work from and leave the slog of committing to a 9-5 work routine.  I needed to think of the exact things that are going to keep me going when it feels like things are getting too hard and when it seems like the easiest option would be to return to full time work.


STEP 3:  Collect Your Images

I found most of my images online but the images that you can use to create a vision board can be found absolutely anywhere.  They could be in your photo albums already (make copies if needed), magazines, newspapers, catalogs or online.  Include positive words, affirmations and inspirational quotes that resonate with you and that will keep you motivated.  I used the printer that I have in my office to print out all of my images.

When you step back and look at the images you’ve collected, you begin to see themes about your goal and how you’re going to feel once you’ve achieved it.


STEP 4:  Arrange Your Board 

There is no right or wrong way to arrange your vision board.  Arrange it in such a way that it is going to create meaning for you.  It took me a little while to create the layout that I wanted for my vision board.


This is what I came up with when I created my vision board for ‘Finding Your Best You’.  I tried setting it out many ways but this way worked for me the most.  My focus of the board is in the middle.  On the left is my vision for ‘Finding Your Best You’ and on the right is what I’m going to do once I achieve my goal and how I am going to feel once I get there.


Your turn! 

Do you have a goal that you’ve always wanted to work towards?  It could be anything.  It could be that you want to lose weight, that you want to earn extra income or it could be recovering from your mental illness.

I want you to think like you’ve already achieved what you’re setting out to do.

What does it look like?  How do you feel?

I want you to be creative when you work on your vision board.  Give yourself permission to spend time on this activity.  Think about the prompts listed below when creating your vision board.  

  • What will your life look like when you’ve achieved your goal?
  • How are you going to feel once you’ve achieved it?
  • How is your life going to be different?

Think about the colours, the feelings, the words and your rewards.  You can also include motivational quotes or anything that is going to keep you motivated along the way.  Your going to use your board as a motivation prompt when you feel anxious and fearful and have those moments of self-doubt. 

I’d like to see what you have come up with.

Here’s to finding your best you.

Ashleigh x

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This Goal Planning Technique Will Get You On Track

In this blog post I share with you a technique that I use in planning action towards a specific goal.  I use this activity as part of my ‘Find Your Best You’ online program.  I call it an ‘action log’, which is basically a brainstorm of all the things you think you need to do in order to reach your goal.  This technique is one of my favourite things to do in the planning process.  I always get a feeling of being in control when I have all my thoughts down on paper right in front of me.

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Firstly, you know what you want to work towards?  Yes!

You’re feeling overwhelmed at the very thought of it?  Yes!

You have no idea where to start?  Yes!

There is no right or wrong way to do this.  If you’re old fashioned like me you can use pen and paper or if you’re a techno wiz you can brainstorm on your phone, Ipad or laptop.  I doesn’t matter which way you do this, as long as you can keep a record of your thoughts.  I like to mindmap.

For the next 10-15 minutes I want you to list everything that you can think of what you think needs to happen for you to achieve your goal.  Think in the short term, the medium term and also the long term.  Don’t be too worried about what it is that you need to do first.  You’re simply brainstorming here.

If your goal is to lose weight, you might include some of the following in your action log: 

  • Buy a set of scales
  • Google what foods are good to eat
  • Book an appointment with a dietician
  • Go through the cupboards and get rid of things that are unhealthy
  • Google healthy recipes and pick one new recipe to try each week
  • Pick a day to go for a 30 minute walk each week

Once you’re done, take a look at your list.  How does it make you feel?  Do you feel daunting and overwhelmed or do you feel that you’re beginning to get a clear idea about what you need to do to get there?

Now Determine Priorities 

From the list, what do you think needs to happen first?  You can start to put your list in order of priority.  I teach you how to determine priorities in this blog post.

I encourage you at the same time to include time frames for when each specific task needs to be completed.  If we don’t have this we can put things off and lose track.  It can also help keep yourself accountable.  From here you can begin to list specific tasks into your calendar, planner or journal.

I offer a free email course where I can help you work out what you need to do first from everything that you’ve brain stormed.  

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If you’d like to share what you came up with, you’re welcome to post a comment below, send me an email or share on my Facebook page.

Here’s to finding your best you.

Ashleigh x